Naturist Massage - Further Details
General
Note :
I
have a fixed price of £70 for a
Naturist Massage using recognised techniques in which I am professionally
qualified. The massage generally is for 1hr.
List Of Topics
Some
images shown on the page
are taken from the filming of
Discovering Massage produced by Charlie Simonds of Parafotos
&
a huge thank you to my two very willing pupils Joceline &
Sam.
(please
note that Joceline & Sam are Professional Internationally photgraphed
models - they do not
offer massage & neither do I offer a 2 girl massage)
What
does massage do for you ?
Gentle massage affects the nervous system through nerve endings in the
skin, stimulating the release of endorphins, the body's natural 'feel
good' chemicals, to help induce relaxation and a sense of well-being,
to relieve pain and reduce levels of stress chemicals such as cortisol
and noradrenaline.
It helps reverse the damaging effects of stress by slowing heart rate,
respiration and metabolism and lowering raised blood pressure. Stronger
massage stimulates blood circulation to improve the supply of oxygen and
nutrients to body tissues and helps the lymphatic system to flush away
waste products. It eases tense and knotted muscles and stiff joints, improving
mobility and flexibility.
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The
Most Common Massage Techniques include effleurage, a
light, firm and gentle stroking; petrissage, firm kneading
and rolling of the tissues; frottage, or friction, deep
direct pressure to release muscle tension; tapotement, hacking,
tapping and clapping over the muscles and fleshy parts of the body.
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Some
Mental Benefits Of Massage
Fosters
peace of mind
Promotes a relaxed state of mental alertness
Helps relieve mental stress
Improves ability to monitor stress signals and respond appropriately
Enhances capacity for calm thinking and creativity
Fosters a feeling of well-being
Reduces levels of anxiety
Creates body awareness
Increases awareness of mind-body connection
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So
What happens On The Day Of Your Appointment
On the day of your appointment, you will be required to text or make a
telephone call to me on my mobile number of 07985 512702 to confirm
or decline your appointment. When texting me, all you need put is " Appointment
for midday confirmed - J Bloggs ". Or " Sorry I am not able to keep my
appointment for midday - J Bloggs.
You
will NOT be charged for any cancellations, as no-one can foresee
any problems which may occur that day. All I ask is that you do let me
know so that I can re-allocate your appointment to a.n.other for that
time. If you forget to confirm your appointment by 09.30 am (unless
we have agreed between ourselves that due to your inability to do so ie
stuck in an early meeting for example), I will automatically re-allocate
your appointment to a.n.other. Please DO NOT automatically assume
that just because you have made an appointment you will be able to have
a massage if not confirmed.
I
am so sorry if this sounds very blunt it is not meant to do so, it is
just that I have other persons who are in need of a massage from me.
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Making
Your Way To The Appointment
Firstly,
I actively 'encourage' you to be 5 minutes late for your appointment with
me. For Example, if your appointment is for midday, then park your car
at midday, then stroll across the road to my home ( Studio ) and arrive
just after the agreed appointment time. This is because, in our 'every-day'
lives, we HAVE to be on time or just before your appointment time,
which is just good manners to do so, however, with a massage, I believe
that having to be on time, simply adds to your already high levels of
stress. It is stressful enough when you have not visited before to firstly
find the area, followed by having to find the area to park, then to locate
my studio, and lastly to make that all important KNOCK ON THE DOOR
!!.
Now, how terrifying is it when you do not know who or where you are going in the first place and then having to knock or ring the door bell, not knowing who is behind the door!!! ??? so you see, by arriving less flustered in your own time, helps to calm the nerves. When it is your first appointment, I insist on calling me from the car park, which is situated just across the road from me, just 2 minutes away.
As
I live in a very professional, residential area of Southampton, where
comings and goings are not noted by neighbours, and as I live tucked up
at the end of a small close, you are not able to simply wander around
without drawing attention to yourself. It is far easier to simply call
me, for me to be waiting at the door to greet you. When you have been
to see me thereafter, you will not need to call me, simply park your vehicle
and wander over, again 5 minutes late..!! As this is not a usual action
to take with an appointment, it will take a little getting used to, however,
you will feel the benefits after you have been a couple of times… TRUST
ME, IT DOES WORK..!!
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Upon
Entering My Home/Salon
As
I open the door, if it is your first visit, ( this can either be a pleasant
surprise, or ghastly shock, depending on what you are looking for) I will
take you to the first room in my home on The ground floor of my 3 storey
town house home. Once inside, I will lock the door from inside so that
you and I feel secure. This is very important as I myself have been for
massages where we have been interrupted by some total stranger in the
middle of a massage I was receiving. I hasten to add, I have NOT been
there again, as I was so tense thinking that we were going to be disturbed
again… Over a soft drink, we will discuss at length your experiences of
massages, naturist massages, naturism, the reason you are looking for
a massage with me etc. I call this a " two - way interview". It is imperative
that you actually like your masseuse, especially a naturist one. There
has to be some kind of connection between two people, (not a sexual
nor a close connection, but a trust connection ). You have to
feel happy in the knowledge that I know what I am doing, and that you
feel that I am able to help with your kind of stress.
PLEASE
NOTE : I AM NOT AN ESCORT, NOR DO I SELL SEXUAL SERVICES, SO PLEASE, PLEASE,
IF YOU ARE AN OPPORTUNIST OR ARE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING OTHER THAN A REALLY
RELAXING, SENSUAL NATURIST MASSAGE, THEN PLEASE DO NOT EMBARRASS YOURSELF
BY TURNING UP FOR A MASSAGE WITH ME, AS YOU WILL BE EXTREMELY DISAPPOINTED.
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Mutual
Trust
If you do not want to receive a massage from myself at this stage, OR
I do not feel safe or feel that you have some ulterior motive behind you
coming for a massage, then THE MASSAGE WILL NOT TAKE PLACE. I will
or you will simply say " I do not think this massage if for me thankyou
" then we will part company. There will be no animosity, or offishness,
trust me. I believe that being open and honest is of the UTMOST IMPORTANCE.
Assuming that you do want to have a massage with me and that I would like
to massage you.
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Showering
Facilites
If a shower is required, then I will explain how the shower works, and
how to dispense the shower gel and towel etiquette (once used, throw
on floor ..lol ). There is nothing worse than cold, damp towels used
twice.. NOT NICE. All of my towels, massage table coverings, are
freshly laundered and the there are NEVER used twice or by anyone
other than yourself at that time. GUARANTEED. My standards are
extremely important to me. if you went to a restaurant, and the cutlery
was a little dirty, you would certainly think twice about eating there
again. Same kind of principle.. All shower gels are from a good quality
company, and are the same quality as I use in my own life.. I do not believe
in skimping on things like this… what is good enough for me and my family
I feel will be as good for yourself..
I also provide several types of soaps for your use in the case of not
liking shower gels. If there is a certain type you like, prior to your
arrival, I will be only to happy to get one in for you and keep it
here for your use only. I have several peopleswash bags and towels
and I fully understand that each and every one of us have our own preferred
smellys. When you shower, I do not stay in the room, as there is nothing
more off putting than someone standing over you almost timing your shower..
This just adds to your stress, not lessens it in my opinion.
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After
You Have Showered And Dried Yourself
I
ask that you make yourself very comfortable lying faced down on my massage
table. NAKED, yes NAKED… TOTALLY free of clothes… Now this is such
a fantastic feeling, almost an Arousing experience, if you have not been
in this situation before, NO towels, NO coverings, just
you and your body, free of restrictions on my massage table. Your " bits
" will of course be hidden, to save any initial possible embarrassment
or fear of feeling "exposed". Please do not worry at this stage that
I am not forthcoming immediately, I purposely let you settle down for
a few moments on your own, to feel the warmth of the room, to hear your
own breathing, and to be aware of your very warm, safe surroundings.
I will then join you, still with my "whites" on and will calmly re-assure
you and make simple conversation with you, nothing complicated or imposing
or of an interrogatory manner. Just pure and simply a warm, soft voice
to re-assure you that all is going to be alright. I WILL THEN FREE
MYSELF OF ALL MY CLOTHES AND COME TO THE TABLE The oils I use
are simply, Pure Sweet Almond Oil and Baby Oil. Both will not irritate
or harm you in any shape or form. They are mixed together and are gently
warmed prior to applying to your skin. Usually I will begin with a very
calming massage. You will be asked to lie down and get yourself comfortable
on my massage table . Standing beside the table, I will use relaxing strokes
on your muscles, varying the pressure as I work. If I feel tension and
knots beneath the skin, I will spend more time on that area. For instance
your shoulders may take Between 20 and 30 minutes alone to simply relax.
As I progress with the massage, my massage techniques will vary to attack
any noticeable problems. I may try rhythmic drumming strokes, apply light
or heavy pressure, or hold part of a muscle until it relaxes. Additionally,
as I have experience as a massage therapist, I have knowledge of human
anatomy to locate the sources of my clients' discomfort. Muscles are
interrelated. Pain in one part of the body can be caused by problems in
other parts, ie, problems located in your neck Area may cause problems
in your lower back… It may sound strange and you may wonder just why I
am massaging your lower back, when it is your shoulders that are causing
you problems.., but please trust me, I know what I am doing.
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How
Long Will The Massage Last
Your
massage will usually last around an hour.This
DOES NOT include your showering time OR the time we take
to talk before or after the massage… So we are probably looking at around
an hour and a quarter for your massage. Once I have given you a full body
Naturist Massage, you are very welcome to a leasurely shower.. Please
do not ask for an assisted shower (Me in the shower too), as you may get
the cold tap turned on you.. and if that is not clear enough the answer
is NO - ABSOLUTELY NOT !!!
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